Have you ever been in a situation where something is said
that feels like a personal attack?
It's possible it's not about you,
but rather a reflection of something someone else is going through.
You can dig your heels in and prepare to win the argument,
or soften your tone with a presence that deflates the tension.
We've all been there.
The next time you are, try this approach...
Don't take it personally, think through it critically.
Solve the problem, don't attack the person.
Offer a solution, instead of defending your position.
And above all...
honor the person in front of you the entire time.
Deflating the tension starts with proper perspective.
Value the person in front of you,
over the position in the argument.
From the desk of our founder, Brett W. Gould.